Juggling Time With God and Time With Children

“I just can’t do it all!”

Many of you ladies know what it is like to struggle with a lack of time. Our lives are full of activity, and no other needs can demand as much of our time as those of our children. With all the demands and pressures of motherhood, it can often seem impossible to take even a few minutes of time to commune with our Lord. If you feel the crush of life as a mother, be encouraged – you’re not alone! The ladies at TrueWoman have written an excellent and helpful post on this “busy-ness” we all encounter and offer several helpful and encouraging tips to help us feel the joy of being both a mother to your children and a disciple of your Lord. Click here to read more.

Creative Hospitality Ideas

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies – in order that in everything, God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.” (1 Peter 4:8-11, ESV)

In his first letter, written to persecuted believers throughout modern-day Turkey, Peter combines a strong concern for right thinking (theology) with a strong concern for right living that results in praise to God (doxology). In showing love toward other believers, the name of the Lord Jesus is exalted above our own names and our own comfort. It is interesting for us to note the importance of hospitality in the life of Christian love. In fact, as soon as Peter commands his readers to live in a way that reflects this love, he first mentions humble and joyful hospitality as an example of showing love to the church – even before the exercising of our spiritual gifts!

Sadly, we often find it difficult to exercise hospitality toward others, even our dear brothers and sisters in Christ. Many questions can arise when thinking about how we are to live out this commandment in our lives: what if my husband isn’t as excited about inviting people into our home? How can I exercise hospitality as a single lady? Or, perhaps most importantly: where do I even begin?

The ladies at girltalk have compiled a short but excellent list of ideas that can help jump-start you toward becoming a more hospitable lady. In this post, they answer all these questions and more by giving easy and fun examples of hospitality that anyone could do. May the Lord use it to bless you and your neighbors as you “show hospitality to one another without grumbling”!

For even more great ideas about exercising hospitality in all kinds of situations, click here.

Death Is Not Dying

Death Is Not Dying

Death Is Not Dying

Rachel Barkey is a sister in Christ who, after four and a half years of fighting breast cancer, was diagnosed with terminal cancer. She is a 37 year old wife and mother of two. Rachel says “Cancer does not define me. Neither does being a wife or a mother. All these things are part of who I am but they do not define me. What defines me is my relationship with Jesus.” In March of 2009 she gave a talk to women at her church in Vancouver, sharing about her hope in the midst of terminal cancer. I, along with many others, was blessed after hearing her testimony, and I wanted to share this with those of you who had not heard this yet. You may download an MP3 version of the audio to your computer by right clicking on this link, and selecting “Save As”.

If you would like more information, please visit her site at www.DeathIsNotDying.com.

God’s Amazing Promises

We completed the Excellent Wife series a few weeks ago, and let me say, the Lord greatly blessed this time! The audios from this time are available at the Christ Church website. So if you were unable to attend this study, or you missed a couple of the classes, or you just want go back through the study, you can find the audios here.

Also, beginning Tuesday, June 9, at 6:30 p.m., is a study on “God’s Amazing Promises“. The study will be led by Mrs. Elsie Newell. Workbooks will be available to purchase at the church on that night. When more information is available, I’ll post it here.

Ladies’ 2009 Spring Koinonia

“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised” (Proverbs 31:30)

Just a reminder that you are invited to the Ladies’ 2009 Spring Koinonia. It will be held next Saturday, March 28th, 2009, from 8:30 am to 2 pm at The River Center of Saluda Shoals Park. Mrs. Delaine Blackwell will be teaching. Mrs. Ann Wilson and Mrs. Ann Forrest Bowers will each share a testimony. Using God’s word as a mirror (James 1:23-25), we will discover how God defines beauty.  It will become apparent that the influences of today’s culture and the tenants of the feminist movement have tarnished the reflection of God in our lives more than we realize.  The charge will be to renew our minds, obey God’s Word and exert a reforming influence upon our world. Lunch will be served at a cost of $5.

Please register by TOMORROW, March 20th. You may register here, or by contacting the church office at 803.254.5055.
“…I will watch expectantly for the LORD…” (Micah 7:7)

Ladies’ Spring Koinonia

The Ladies’ Spring Koinonia will be held at the River Center at Saluda Shoals Park on Saturday, March 28th from 8:30 am until 3:00 pm. Our speaker will be Mrs. Delaine Blackwell. In addition, we will hear of the Lord’s faithfulness from the testimony of Mrs. Ann Wilson. Lunch will be provided at a cost of $5.00 per person. For more information, please continue to check my blog, as well as here.

The Excellent Wife Study

The Excellent Wife, a 12 week Bible study will begin on Tuesday, January 13, from 6:30-7:30pm at Christ Church. Books will be available for purchase at the church. The study will be led by a team of teachers: Mrs. Janie Timmons, Mrs. Delaine Blackwell, Mrs. Luanne Ozmint, Mrs. Cindy Snell, Mrs. Nola Burnette and Mrs. Wendy Knox. Childcare is not available for this evening study. For more information, please refer to Christ Church’s website.

My Peace I Give to You

It always astounds me to realize how drastically our lives can change in one short year. This year brought some significant changes for our family, as it did for many of you. Annie has now left home to begin college and has loved her first semester at Clemson, for which I am immensely grateful. Rachel is in her last year of graduate school and living here with me until she graduates in May, which is a sweet gift. Branford lives close by and enjoys selling for his Dad’s company. We have all been stunned and saddened by the death of Marilee Armstrong at sunrise on December 8,2008. Yet we know that God did not create us to live with anxiety, which is evidenced by the harm that worry and stress produce in our bodies and our minds. We were created to walk in peace with God. This time of year, we read the familiar greeting of the angels to shepherds who were terrified. That greeting begins with “Do not be afraid…” and ends with “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased.” (Luke 2:10, 14)  This is not a promise for world peace, for scripture never promises that. In fact, Christ specifically tells His followers that wars and rumors of wars will continue right up to the end of time. (Matthew 24:6-7) What is promised is peace with God for those who trust in Christ. In John 14:27, Jesus prepares His disciples for the time that He will no longer be with them physically. His words have comforted His followers for 2000 years, and they seem especially poignant to us today.

“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.”

Yet in this time of economic crisis and uncertainty, fear is rampant. Times of crisis test our faith, reveal our hearts and enable us to see what we really believe. The Bible gives us so many examples of men and women who were tested in the press of life. We are allowed to see their human failings, yet we also see the strength of their faith. God has recorded their journeys of faith and preserved them through thousands of years so that men and women of every age could find strength and encouragement from their testimonies. Yet, sadly, so few American Christians avail themselves of that blessing. Scripture has more to say about the second Advent of Christ than the first one, yet the western church seems to have lost her sense of anticipation and longing for His return. Perhaps life has just gotten too good here, and we have lost sight of our true purpose, which is to advance the Kingdom of God. It is evident that many are concerned only about advancing their own kingdoms, ignoring the One who has blessed our nation so extravagantly. These verses in II Timothy 3 say it best:

“But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.”   Doctor Luke warns us that “men will be fainting from fear and the expectation of the things which are coming upon the world; for the powers of the heavens will be shaken.” Luke 21:26.  But thanks be to God, that is NOT the end of the story! Luke goes on to encourage God’s people in verse 28: “But when these things begin to take place, straighten up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”

And so this Christmas, I invite all of you to ponder with us, the second coming of the Christ, whose birth we celebrate. It is a wonderful way to examine your heart! Do you look forward to His coming with joy and anticipation? Will your legacy be like that of Joseph of Arimathea, who is recorded in scripture as “a prominent member of the Council, who himself was waiting for the kingdom of God” (Mark 15:43) For which kingdom do you expend your time, energy and resources ; your own or God’s? The kingdoms of men will continue to fall. The kingdom of God moves forward to it’s glorious climax.  My prayer is that we will not just survive the difficult times ahead; we will thrive in them! May our faith shine brighter than it ever has before, our joy more abundant, our love more fervent. This will only happen if we walk in the footsteps of the heroes of our faith, many of whom are recorded in Hebrews, chapter 11. Like them, we must  “lay aside every encumbrance, and the sin which so easily entangles us, and run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.” (Hebrews 12:1-3)

The Greek word for blessed is Makarios, and it means, “to be indwelt by God and thereby, to be fully satisfied.” God offers us that gift still. Like Mary, may we ponder these things in our heart and receive His gift of Makarios this Christmas.

Helpful Resources

Dr. J. Ligon Duncan and Complementarianism

Dear ladies, recently Dr. J. Ligon Duncan (pastor at First Presbyterian Church in Jackson, MS) spoke at a conference sponsored by The Council of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW), and outlined six reasons why complementarianism – the full biblical witness of God’s glorious design for manhood and womanhood – remains vital for strong local churches. The six reasons he gave were as follows:

  1. Complementarianism affords an advantage to Christian discipleship.
  2. Our owning up to the God-designed complementarity of the genders frees us to read the scriptures faithfully and without twisting their meaning.
  3. Complementarity is the only faithful way to understand and defend the biblical vision for marriage in our culture.
  4. He antidote to the vast majority of worldliness in matters of sexuality and gender necessarily includes the complementarian structure found in scripture.
  5. Complementarianism allows us to preserve the authority of the Bible in all matters of life and practice.
  6. Complementarianism holds an important advantage in that it alone reveals to the world the gospel in the lives of married persons.

I highly encourage y’all to go to CBMW’s blog and read the article in its entirety. It is a great read! The article can be found at this link.